Why Aren’t Queer Men Happier?

Why aren’t queer men happier?

It’s time to share the real reasons that queer men aren’t happier, and let you know what you can do about it.

I love sharing this piece because it will show you that there IS a way to find the happiness you’re looking for.  The only reasons why more gay men aren’t happier with their lives are:

1. Most men don’t know the 7 secrets and have no idea how they’ve been creating lives they don’t want to be in. That’s most men, now that you’ve come this far with me you’re not one of those guys any more. You know.

2. Even if they have stumbled on a couple, or maybe even all of the secrets, many men aren’t doing anything about it. Sometimes that’s because they they’re crippled by guilt, or shame. It could be that their fear is holding them back. But, more often than not they just don’t know how to take that first step.

So the question you need to ask yourself is how badly do you really want the life you’ve been dreaming of? You need to want it badly enough that you’ll make sure it happens.

Why should I bother, you’re thinking, I’ve been fine so far.

What’s the big deal if things just stay the same?

If you want to turn into yet another bitter old queen, you’ve seen plenty of them, that’s OK with me.

But, if you’re listening to this recording that’s not you. You’re feeling alone, like you have no support. You feel disconnected form the people around you. You might even hate yourself, or at least be really uncomfortable with who you are inside. Most of all, you want that to change.


Do you really think you can be happy if you continue with the lying, and hiding,  betraying the people closest to you? Living in fear of discovery?


Is the love you’re craving just going to show up if you stay apart from our community? Would you recognize it even if it did? After all you have no idea what a relationship with another man should even look like.


Can you go on denying your dreams, pushing down your interests, being untrue to yourself and never feeling worthy of the life you want and deserve?


Are you ready to keep paying the price for the rest of your life because you let fear get in the way of moving forward?

You can explore sites like this all day long, but, nothing compares to having someone with a lot of experience, and insight, helping you 1 on 1. If you really want it, you need to invest some time and money to make it happen.


Now, here’s a special offer for you just for exploring this site. It’s a 1-on-1 coaching call with me, your Gay Guru®, for a small investment, if you sign up in the next 72 hours.

You can probably tell by now that I love:

* Working with gay, bi, queer and questioning men.

* Helping them find ways to be more real and live amazing lives.

* Leading them to better relationships with the people around them.

* Guiding them to find true, lasting love

* Helping them find work that they’re passionate about.

* Deepening their connection to themselves and the Universe.

* Getting their true selves out into the sunshine so that can find happiness, and get a great tan.

I don’t want you to waste more years feeling unhappy, unfulfilled, and having no idea what to do about it. That’s why, to make sure that you get as much value as possible out of our time together, I’m going to send you a detailed Get Naked questionnaire. As you fill it out you’ll get clear on where you are in your process. On which areas you hide most in,  and which ones are really most important to you. It will give me an opportunity to get to know you and your dreams. That way I can lay down some concrete strategies for you during our call so that you can leave with a Get Naked action plan. I’ll make lots of detailed notes when I review your questionnaire so that I’m prepared to share as much as possible with you.


After that we’ll get on the phone (or Skype) for a full hour,  so that I can give you feedback, help you understand where, and why you’re holding back, and answer any questions you have about how to get where you want to go. I’ll even record the call for you so that you can go back and listen to it again. Many people will listen to it 2 or even 3 more times just to make sure that they’ve gotten everything we’ve packed into that hour together.


If you’re wondering what we’d talk about for a whole hour, don’t worry, I’ll lead. We can talk about any of the following:

* Where you are in your process.

* Which parts of yourself are still hiding in that crowded closet.

* Which one you feel is most important for you to bring out into the light.

How, when,where and with whom, you want to do that.

* What steps you can take  to :

Get more honest with yourself about what you want and why you want it.

Start planning to be more open with friends.

Who to start with.

How to continue.

* How you can dig in to your values to start finding Mr. Right.

* Figuring out how to talk to your family

Who is that critical ally?

* How to deal with people at work or a career transition.

* How you can start connecting to yourself and the Universe at a deeper level.

Click here to sign up for your one on one coaching call with Brian